It happens in every relationship that is doing great. There's a thought of “I don't feel like I'm #1 in his/her life”. Why do these thoughts come in to our mind and what can we do about them to either eliminate or drastically diminish them?

In today's post, we are going to talk about why those thoughts come into our thought life and give you some strategies to get rid of them.

These strategies are not instantaneous but if you work at it you will see success and that's what we like to see. Successful and growing realtionships.

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Now, if you're not married there are many other thoughts that might be entering into your thought life. If you've been around the sun a few times, you may have heard that fear just stands for False Evidence Appearing Real. There are plenty more acronyms about this word that all stand true.

What we want to do with this is to get your mind to believe this so that it's stronger and able to fend off those thoughts that might come into your head giving you doubt or fear that something negative is going to happen to your relationship.

First we need to read what God says about who we are and what his intensions are towards us.

God says things in his Word that blatantly state that

• HE LOVES US
• We are more than conquerors
• He cares for us
• He protects us

So if He says these strong things about us, we can believe these things about us. The best part is that when we believe these things our mindset will no longer believe the bad things that just pop up in our heads from out of nowhere.

When you study God's word and repeatedly get the word in your heart, you eventually become that word. In other words, you're able to face fear and tell it where to go because of the belief you have built up in your heart.