Today we are going to talk about the balances that you must think about when thinking is starting a new relationship worth it? Now you might be thinking that I haven't started a relationship yet – so why does it matter if I jump into a relationship.
Well you might want to read the rest of the blog post, listen to the podcast and take some notes to learn how to future proof your relationship.
First of all, if you are in a toxic relationship where your health is in danger. Do all you can to get out and safe. When you are in a place that is safe, that is when you can start to make progress on yourself.
We've seen this all to often in relationships that are on rocky, unstable ground. They think that because the relationship isn't working out that it's time to go find another relationship that will make them happy at the place where they are currently. Of course, they aren't thinking about the other person other than what can they give rather than what can you give to the other person.
Perhaps this is the biggest reason why relationships fail in the first place.
Selfishness.
Show Notes
Things to consider when thinking “is starting over really worth it?”
- What do you love and/or like about your partner?
- What do you hate and/or despise about your partner?
- What's changeable about the despised things?
- What can you affect immediately?
If you have no control over your partner's actions and you want change now, answer the question “what can you affect immediately?”
Is starting a new relationship worth it? or better put, is it the smart thing to do?
Start doing mindset changing by meditating on scripture. Also, practice saying the “I Am” statements listed below
I Am Statements
Say these with “I AM…”
- HAPPY
- PERFECT
- WORTHY
- FREE
- HEALTHY
- LOVED
- BALANCED
- STRONG
These are the basic I AM statements that will begin the changing of your heart. The best part about these statements is that there is a reference in the bible for each and everyone of these statements.
So, we are repeating what God already says about us!
Mark 11:22-25 provides Jesus words about why we say I AM statements:
22 So Jesus answered and said to them, Have faith in God 23 For assuredly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, Be removed and be cast into the sea, and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done, he will have whatever he says. 24 Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them. 25 And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses.
We just have to believe for what we ask in his name!
Jess states that living a life struggling with fear isn't the reason that Jon came into her life. It's when she was being who she truly is and what's inside of her that is attractive to Jon.
Fear is the only way you can fail in life. If we think fearful thoughts, and allow them to pass through our filter – we give into the wiles of the enemy of our soul. #ThinkLOVE #Relationship Click To TweetNow, if you have had any experience in using I Am statements in the past, you know that they work but take some time to “reprogram” your thought patterns and to have these statements pop up when times are tough or in the heat of stress. We have a PDF that you can download that will take you through I am statements using the bible.
The many “ah ha” moments you'll get from doing the I AM statements using the bible will amaze you and change your life forever!
