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Loving Your Journey with Erica Gilbert [Part 2]



Loving Your Journey – Part 2

In today's podcast, we are continuing our conversation with Erica Gilbert. The mere act of loving your journey is so powerful if you harness it. Through Erica's life, she has been on the skeptical side of harnessing your mind to allow things to be attracted to you. Now Erica is on the proponent side of using our minds to get what we desire out of life.

Listen To Part 1 (Episode 25)

There some verbiage in the bible where Jesus said we will do far greater than He and this all comes down to mindset.

How does mindset get changed? Through meditating on God's Word. Declaring these words out loud to yourself. If you have struggled with anything in life, there is power that is within you to overcome them. Once again, Jesus told us that he has given us all power and authority to trample on serpents

If you still would like to listen to part 1, we definitely encourage you to do so now.


Show Notes & Resources

Some of the resources that Erica talks about in the podcast:

  • Dr. Michael Ryce's book “Why is this happening to me again? can be purchased through amazon.
Why Is This Happening To Me…AGAIN?!

  • Byron Katie's book, “Loving What Is” is available on Amazon
Loving What Is – Four Questions
That Can Change Your Life

You can find Erica on Facebook by going to her personal profile. On her profile she speaks of life issues that related to loving your journey.

It would be really good to check out here profile and see the type of stories she posts there.

Erica Gilbert on Facebook

Ep 25 – Loving Your Journey with Erica Gilbert

Loving your journey with Erica Gilbert

Today is a special day because we are introducing our first guest to you. Erica has been in the coaching business now for right around 10 years. We have seen the work that she does for people in the relationship realm as well as helping them reach entrepreneurial success.

This is going to be a podcast that will help you hone things in and really hear her journey. Hopefully, you'll see parts in it that you will be able to apply to your current relationship.

We love how she tells her story and it gives you the sense that you need to love your journey in order to be fruitful in life.

You can find Erica on Facebook.

If you are looking for coaching on getting to your best and finding your passion in life, she will do that for you. Relationships are huge in anything we do so make sure you are ready for change and change for the better!


Ep 24 – Have The Courage To Go On Loving

One of the best strategies to nurturing the love that you want is to have a positive mindset. A mindset that allows you to have the courage to go on loving your partner through thick and thin.

In this podcast, we are discussing how to get past those times when you think there are no other options for you to keep that love alive.

Show Notes

  • Spend as much time as you possibly can in the present moment.
  • Set goals you want to see happen in your relationship
  • What are you able to do now that will get you there.
  • Bring God into your relationship – He wants to help you out.
  • When you're working with God, you have a majority that says the relationship will work.
  • Cast your cares on Him and watch him work with the cares you gave him.

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How to find peace like a river

There's a picture that we believe speaks to the peace like a river which is mentioned in the Bible. This analogy is saying that your daily work, tasks and dealing with people is likened to you floating around at the top of the water where the waves can come crashing down on you and cause stress that just wasn't meant for you.

When you take just 5 minutes a day to relax in God's presence, you are literally taking yourself to the deep waters where no waves can reach you. You have no care in the world because you're being protected in the deep waters where life is sustained.

If you would like to get more information and strategies on getting more peace in your relationship. Check out our podcast that we believe will give you the basics on starting this in your relationship.


Ep 23 – Facing Your Fears

It happens in every relationship that is doing great. There's a thought of “I don't feel like I'm #1 in his/her life”. Why do these thoughts come in to our mind and what can we do about them to either eliminate or drastically diminish them?

In today's post, we are going to talk about why those thoughts come into our thought life and give you some strategies to get rid of them.

These strategies are not instantaneous but if you work at it you will see success and that's what we like to see. Successful and growing realtionships.

A successful relationship is a growing relationship with no insecure or fearful thoughts. Click To Tweet

Now, if you're not married there are many other thoughts that might be entering into your thought life. If you've been around the sun a few times, you may have heard that fear just stands for False Evidence Appearing Real. There are plenty more acronyms about this word that all stand true.

What we want to do with this is to get your mind to believe this so that it's stronger and able to fend off those thoughts that might come into your head giving you doubt or fear that something negative is going to happen to your relationship.

First we need to read what God says about who we are and what his intensions are towards us.

God says things in his Word that blatantly state that

  • HE LOVES US
  • We are more than conquerors
  • He cares for us
  • He protects us

So if He says these strong things about us, we can believe these things about us. The best part is that when we believe these things our mindset will no longer believe the bad things that just pop up in our heads from out of nowhere.

When you study God's word and repeatedly get the word in your heart, you eventually become that word. In other words, you're able to face fear and tell it where to go because of the belief you have built up in your heart.


Ep 22 – My Spouse Does not Fulfill My Needs Anymore

my spouse doesn't fulfill my needs anymore

Every relationship has those times where you just don't feel like you're invigorated with love for your spouse. If you just don't see eye to eye and you find yourself saying my relationship does not fulfill my needs anymore…

Read on and listen in (above)

But if you're going to keep going and push through, you will need to have some strategies to get through these times that can be torment on your relationship. So here's what you can do to solve the “My spouse doesn't fulfill my needs anymore” issue.

Show Notes for Episode 22

Problem #1 – Looking Inward to round out your needs

Biggest problem is that you're looking inward when you need to be looking outwards to help out your spouse. IF you find yourself getting sad or depressed – that's a key that you're looking inwards.

In order to love someone you have to look at your spouse and appreciate them, love them, spoil them. Remember, LOVE is not just given, you have to work for it. The greater the love the more work that has been done for it.

Love is not just given, you have to work for it. The greater the #love, the more work that has been done for it. Click To Tweet

Problem #2 – Growing In Your Relationship

Most of the time, when we have problems with our life partner, we tend to look through the lens of what they have done for you lately.

Remember that Janet Jackson song… What have you done for me lately?

Well, it's kinda like that.

So what is it that cures this ailment in our relationship?

It's basically boiled down to maturity. We either learn how to deal with it on our own or we reach out to people that have been through the struggles and pains of a relationship. Those are the people that are well worth your money and time to get answers.

Resolution #1 – Change Your Perspective

When the going gets tough, the tough get going.

nobody left a name – they ran outta town

What does that mean to us as it applies to our relationship? Simply put it means that we learn from our mistakes so that we do not have to run from our problems.

Yes, that quote means when things get tough, the tough generally head out of town so that they don't have to deal with the tough problems.

We take on a lot of tough problems and when we just don't have it to give, we turn to God. God is our creator and He will change your heart to be the best partner anyone has ever had. Why not make it your partners experience rather than starting all over with the same problems.

Resolution #2 – Serve One Another

Instead of thinking about why your partner no longer meets the needs of your standards. Flip this around to an attitude of service. You are both in life together to help each other, add to the experience of life for one another. So something nice for your spouse as a lover would do things to and for each other.

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Make sure to listen to the podcast “My Spouse Does Not Fulfill My Needs anymore” that goes along with this blog post and remember to subscribe to the podcast wherever you listen to us.

If you're looking for more podcast to listen to on our blog, we suggest starting here with our first podcast


Ep 21 – The Best Ways to Resolve Important Family Conflicts

Resolve Important Family Conflicts

This episode will go through the best ways to resolve important family conflicts every time with success.

When a couple gets together and are madly in love, it seems like the ability to make important decisions tend to slip away because of the love struck mindset we all tend to have in the beginning.

Show Notes

Best Way to Resolve Important Family Conflicts

Communication is always the best way to resolve your conflicts even if it leads to more conflicts because you're telling the truth. Just know that eventually, the truth will resolve any discord in a marriage or relationship.

Scenarios that may happen when disagreement happens.

  • One person caves and goes with the other persons suggestion
  • One person pushes the issue and railroads the issue
  • Two interests that disagree should have a way to agree
  • Go to God to get resolution, individually

Earnestly seek the answer to the issue by going to God. God will always agree with Himself and if you're both going to God, then you'll come back with the same answer.

How to tell you have the word from God and to stand with God's word.

  • Pray for your partner to get the word from God
  • Be a team when working out issues in the family
  • Truly go into the spirit to get your answer rather than looking with your eyes and feelings.
  • Give it completely to the Lord and don't take it back.
Going to God as your mediator is the best way to get the best answer and resolution to the issue you may be having Click To Tweet

Some other resources that will help you with the best ways to resolve family conflict


Using Your Kingly Authority – Episode 17

Using Your Kingly Authority

The power of our words nobody knows. But one thing is for sure, and that is that this power is much greater than we have ever known. Which is why its' imperative that you start using your kingly authority in your relationship.

There's no question that we can change lives with our words by speaking life or death to others and even yourself. And yet, we seem to have forgotten that making an effort to encourage one another is the highest form of being a leader.

We hope that you are listening here or on your favorite podcasting app. This is a 2 part series and you can find the 2nd part here

Your words are very important because we are made in Christs image. We believe that there are things that do not happen because of belief levels. For instance, you calling out someone to become an elephant. That won't happen and any other extreme stuff like that – because the person saying the words doesn't believe the words spoken.

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The fact that we are nowhere near using the kingly authority that God has given us means we have a road ahead of us to accomplish what God has placed in us.

When you start using the kingly authority that God has given us, you'll start seeing things change that you set in motion and let God finish. This is huge and think about what you can do for your relationship when you learn these concepts.

We've talked about some of the basics to having a relationship that others will quite honestly be saying, “how do you have such a loving, lasting, and explosive love sort of relationship?”.

You'll get to send them this post and tell them that it's advice based on God's word because He is the author of relationship. Life is so much easier when you just follow in His footsteps!

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