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Ep 33 – Love Notes For The Brokenhearted

Through the relationships that we have, there is a heartbreak that we experience when things don't work out like we expected them to work out. When that happens there's a chance that brokenhearted emotions set in.

So in today's post, we are going to talk about the love notes for brokenhearted. Hopefully, we can encourage you to get through the hard times and know that you will see better times ahead.

After all, you have never seen a person down in the dumps all of their lives, right? So we are going to give you some love notes for the brokenhearted in this post.

To explain a bit about this topic, we want to help you in healing a broken heart. Have you gone through a break up where the relationship lasted many years? Did you lose a family member? These are the questions that usually end up in the diagnosis of a broken heart.

Most of the time you don't even know you have a broken heart.

Show Notes For Episode 33

Love Notes For The BrokenHearted

3 The Lord appeared to us in the past,[a] saying: ?I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.

Jeremiah 31:3

Jessica shared with us how, when she was a 4-year-old, she went to a meeting with her mom and the pastor called up the children to the stage and Jessica went on her own accord.

After all the talking was done to the parents and adults, the pastor spoke to the children and then to Jess. He told her a word from the Lord and quoted Jeremiah 31:3.

Clothing In The Spirit

Clothing yourself with love is what we all desire in the physical, but everything starts in the spiritual. So start clothing yourself in LOVE from the start – in the spirit.

14 Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. 15 And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be… Click To Tweet

That's just the start of things when it comes to clothing yourself in the spirit.

There's Jeremiah 29:11 where we are able to clothe ourselves with hope for the future

In Isaiah 61:10, clothing ourselves with joy, salvation, along with the robe of righteousness.

As we clothe ourselves in the fruits of the spirit, we realize that there are times that might make us a little nervous and that's when we are able to know that we can be right under his wing. The name of the Lord is our strong tower!

How exciting is this to know we have at our disposal the power, might, and clothing to do God's work in our lives. Relationships are what we are created to learn here on Earth.

Give yourself a head start by getting dressed in the spirit and then keeping those clothes perfect by hiding under God's wing.

Romans 8:38-39 states that we cannot be separated from God's love.

Knowing these verses inside and out without having to consult the bible is how you'll see them come alive in your life.

David Asks For Mercy

According to your UNFAILING LOVE is how he knows he is still loved even after committing adultery and murder.

Love keeps no records of wrong (Corinthians)

Final Thoughts

Through our knowing who God is in our life, we are able to apply these things to our relationship. Jess states in the podcast that typically the problems exist when we are believing something about us that isn't true.

It's never really truly us that is the problem when we have relationship problems… or is it?!

Relationship problems directly affect us but that doesn't mean that it's our fault. That has to be analyzed and almost all the time, you'll find that if you start going into a mode of improving yourself, you'll start seeing your partner reflect what you've done to improve yourself.

Making you better is the best answer to solving relationship issues. Which is why we tell you of God's love towards you. It should be encouraging to know you can be loved no matter what state you're in right now.

We hope you get answers and encouragement in this episode of love for the brokenhearted.

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Ep 32 – How To Deal with and Heal Narcissism [Part 2]


Today we live in a world full of social media that encourages us to take selfies, do videos to help others get to know one another. That's great but when does it go too far? That's when we need to know how to deal with and heal narcissism.

Part 2 of our discussion is going to be finishing up what we started 🙂 Below are the show notes that you can use to follow along in our podcast.

Common Traits Of A Narcissist

  • Sense of entitlement / superior
  • Lack of empathy
  • manipulative
  • need for admiration (strong)
  • selfish more than giving
  • more aggression than usual

Let's be clear here. We all, at times, have at least one of these in our lives. It's up to us to realize that which shouldn't belong and improve ourselves day by day.

It's the person that has a majority of these traits that crosses the line which then the narcissist label is applied.

Difficulty Taking Feedback

Practice Mindfulness

Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is his good, pleasing and perfect will. Click To Tweet

Be Realistic With Yourself.

Matthew 11:29-30 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. Click To Tweet

Be Honest With Yourself.

John 10:10 The thief comes only in order to steal, kill and destroy; I have come so that they may have life, life in its fullest measure. Click To Tweet John 16:13 "But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth; for He will not speak on His own initiative, but whatever He hears, He will speak; and He will disclose to you what is to come. Click To Tweet John 15:26 "When the Helper comes, whom I will send to you from the Father, that is the Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, He will testify about Me. Click To Tweet 1 John 4:6 We are from God, and whoever knows God listens to us; but whoever is not from God does not listen to us. This is how we recognize the Spirit of truth and the spirit of falsehood. Click To Tweet

A Quick Side Note

It's quite interesting that God would put scriptures about love and relationship in the same area of the bible. What ORGANIZATION!

Getting back to how to deal with and heal narcissism. You have to believe the truth, and in truth.  If you have no solid and firm beliefs, the question has to be asked.

What do you believe in and how easily will it be to take you down a road that was meant for your destruction?

We believe that the best way to get narcissism out of your life is to start working on improving yourself first and then watch the change happen in your mate.

A narcissist would make you believe that whatever he/she says is ultimate truth and you?re there to serve and make their way a priority.

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Ep 31 – How To Deal with and Heal Narcissism [Part 1]


Narcissism is a thing that people don't like to talk about until they get into a relationship with one. That's when they want to figure out how to deal with and heal narcissism for their partner.

This is exactly what we are going to talk about in this episode.

Show Notes

1. Listen To Yourself Speak

Proverbs 3:5-6 – 5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths

2. Self Inventory

Proverbs 1:10-14 My son, if sinful men entice you, do not give in to them. 11 If they say, “Come along with us; let's lie in wait for innocent blood, let's ambush some harmless soul; 12 let's swallow them alive, like the grave, and whole, like those who go down to the pit; 13 we will get all sorts of valuable things and fill our houses with plunder; 14 cast lots with us; we will all share the loot”

One really good question to ask yourself after reading this verse is: “Do you think you're getting more out of the relationship than what is healthy?

3. Reinforce Positive Behavior 

Romans 12:2 Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. Click To Tweet

Most don't realize that a relationships can be more than just satisfactory. God made relationship and he wanted you to have the best relationship EVER!

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Proverbs 3:5-6 – Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths Click To Tweet

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Ep 30 – God’s Way To Have A Successful Relationship


God has been very clear as to how we can have a relationship with him as well with each other that is so fulfilling that we would choose to have no other way to have this relationship.

Today, we are discussing God's way to have a successful relationship that exudes explosive love from every angle you look at it.

Show Notes

1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Ephesians 4:32
32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

Ephesians 5:21
21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

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These are just a few of the verses that God shows us how to have an explosive love type of relationship.

Additional Thoughts

We know that God's way to have a successful relationship works because that's how we live to the best we know how to live.

There are other ways that have been tried but they always end up in disarray when it comes down to it.

Keep things going with God and make him FIRST in EVERYTHING, including your relationship.

We posted not so long ago about the main things that keep a relationship together and if you don't follow this one rule, the relationship can go south really quick.

So be sure to love your partner with all your heart and soul. And do it God's way to have a successful relationship. THere's so much in love and relationship that God wants for us if we just follow His lead.

Be good to each other and things will grow like you want them to grow.

Is Starting A New Relationship Worth It?

is starting a new relationship worth it

Today we are going to talk about the balances that you must think about when thinking is starting a new relationship worth it? Now you might be thinking that I haven't started a relationship yet – so why does it matter if I jump into a relationship.

Well you might want to read the rest of the blog post, listen to the podcast and take some notes to learn how to future proof your relationship.

First of all, if you are in a toxic relationship where your health is in danger. Do all you can to get out and safe. When you are in a place that is safe, that is when you can start to make progress on yourself.

We've seen this all to often in relationships that are on rocky, unstable ground. They think that because the relationship isn't working out that it's time to go find another relationship that will make them happy at the place where they are currently. Of course, they aren't thinking about the other person other than what can they give rather than what can you give to the other person.

Perhaps this is the biggest reason why relationships fail in the first place.

Selfishness.

Show Notes

Things to consider when thinking “is starting over really worth it?”

  • What do you love and/or like about your partner?
  • What do you hate and/or despise about your partner?
  • What's changeable about the despised things?
  • What can you affect immediately?

If you have no control over your partner's actions and you want change now, answer the question “what can you affect immediately?”

Is starting a new relationship worth it? or better put, is it the smart thing to do?

Start doing mindset changing by meditating on scripture. Also, practice saying the “I Am” statements listed below

I Am Statements

Say these with “I AM…”

  1. HAPPY
  2. PERFECT
  3. WORTHY
  4. FREE
  5. HEALTHY
  6. LOVED
  7. BALANCED
  8. STRONG

These are the basic I AM statements that will begin the changing of your heart. The best part about these statements is that there is a reference in the bible for each and everyone of these statements.

So, we are repeating what God already says about us!

Mark 11:22-25 provides Jesus words about why we say I AM statements:

22 So Jesus answered and said to them, Have faith in God 23 For assuredly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, Be removed and be cast into the sea, and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done, he will have whatever he says. 24 Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them. 25 And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses.

We just have to believe for what we ask in his name!

Jess states that living a life struggling with fear isn't the reason that Jon came into her life. It's when she was being who she truly is and what's inside of her that is attractive to Jon.

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Now, if you have had any experience in using I Am statements in the past, you know that they work but take some time to “reprogram” your thought patterns and to have these statements pop up when times are tough or in the heat of stress. We have a PDF that you can download that will take you through I am statements using the bible.

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The many “ah ha” moments you'll get from doing the I AM statements using the bible will amaze you and change your life forever!

EP 28 – Priorities That Matter In Relationships and Life

Show Notes


Take time out to schedule vacations. It doesn't matter how short in the beginning. It's a win to get away but to get at least a days drive away is an even bigger win.

Start with weekend short trips to get out of the house and detox from the hustle of the day/week.

You need to have downtime for your own sanity. Getting downtime together is the best downtime. So set your goals for alone time with your mate.

Structure your priorities to get your relaxation time when you need it. That means lining up sitters for pets and children. Ask Family if available but do not expect them to watch your children and/or pets.

Plan on spending money on supervision and then whatever you plan on for vacation expenses.

Something we did not cover in this episode is should you be putting your kids first when it comes to your downtime and relaxation? Let us know in the comments what your take is on this subject.

The One Thing That Makes or Breaks A Relationship -Episode 27

Makes or Breaks A Relationship

When you think about all the relationships that you have had over the course of your lifetime, what is the one constant that you can think of off the top of your head?

Some people will say that they loved with abandon. Others, would say they wish they had done things differently and perhaps that's where we need to focus on so that there are less and less people with these sort of regrets.

In this episode, we talk about the one thing that makes or breaks relationships. It's a biggie too!

Show Notes / Resources

Episode 4 is one of the keys to having a great relationship.

Episode 3 which is completely about having peace in your home to thrive and grow your relationship.

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